Integrating

Looking in the mirror
Has I've done so often before
I still see her, not me
Who can fix this?
Not me
Not shrinks, or friends, or parents
We've all tried, we've all lost
Is this a hopeless cause?
If it is, it must end
She must be me, I must be her
But how is the question
We must reunite,
This I know for sure
But integrating these two,
I just don't know how